Why Small Wins Matter: How to Find Success in the Everyday Moments of Motherhood

When you’re in the thick of motherhood, it can often feel like the big milestones—your baby’s first word, their first steps, or your own return to work after maternity leave—are the only moments that matter. Society loves to celebrate the big wins. But what about the small victories? The ones that happen in the everyday chaos, the ones that you probably don’t even notice?

Here’s the thing: Small wins matter. They add up. They can make you feel like you’re moving forward, even when it feels like you’re treading water. And they’re often more impactful than we give them credit for. So, how can you learn to celebrate the small wins in motherhood and use them to fuel your journey? Let’s dive in.


Embrace the Little Moments

If you’re waiting for the big, shiny “success” to validate your efforts as a mom, you might be waiting a long time. The truth is, success in motherhood is rarely a single, grand event. Instead, it’s made up of the small wins—the moments that often go unnoticed.

Did you manage to get a hot cup of coffee before the baby woke up? Win!
Did you make it through a meltdown without losing your cool? Win!
Did you take five minutes for yourself to breathe, stretch, or check in with your feelings? Win!

It’s easy to overlook these tiny triumphs, but they’re the foundation of a successful, fulfilling motherhood experience. Celebrating these wins—no matter how small—helps shift your focus from what you didn’t accomplish to what you did. This subtle shift can make a world of difference in how you feel about your day and your journey as a mother.

Shift Your Perspective: Progress Isn’t Always Linear

It’s easy to feel like you’re failing when things don’t go according to plan, especially with all the expectations and pressure society places on new moms. But here’s the truth: Progress isn’t always linear, and that’s okay.

Some days, your “win” might be getting through the day with a smile. Other days, it might be tackling the laundry, answering emails, or making time to connect with your partner. And sometimes, your win might just be accepting that you need help or taking a break. These moments matter too—they show resilience, adaptability, and self-awareness.

Motherhood isn’t a race or a checklist. It’s an ongoing journey. And every small step forward counts. By recognizing and celebrating those small wins, you’ll feel empowered, knowing that you’re moving in the right direction—no matter how many stumbles happen along the way.

Small Wins Create Momentum

The beauty of small wins is that they compound. One win leads to another. When you recognize your successes—even the small ones—you build momentum, which motivates you to keep going.

For example, when you get out of bed and spend five minutes meditating or journaling, that can help you feel calmer and more present for the rest of your day. Or maybe you spend a few minutes reading a book, getting outside, or spending quality time with your baby. The sense of accomplishment from those small wins gives you the confidence to tackle bigger goals over time.

By celebrating these everyday moments, you gradually shift your mindset from one of overwhelm to one of empowerment. And that shift? It makes all the difference in how you experience motherhood.



Ready to Celebrate Your Wins and Find Support on Your Journey?

If you’re struggling to find the small wins in your motherhood journey or feeling overwhelmed by the pressures of postpartum life, I’m here to help. Book a free 15-minute consultation call with me to explore how we can work together to support your postpartum journey and help you redefine success on your terms.

Sometimes, the biggest success is finding peace and balance in the everyday moments—and I’m here to help you find that. Let’s chat about how we can create a plan that works for you.

What’s one small win you’re celebrating today? I’d love to hear it! Share with me in the comments or send me a message—I’m rooting for you!